In recent years, the concept of "smart cities" has emerged as a futuristic vision for urban development, driven by the integration of digital technologies into urban infrastructure and services. However, this approach often neglects fundamental considerations about the human and societal impact of technology on urban life. This study proposes a critical reflection on the intersections between the ideals of smart cities and the philosophy of technology, while exploring the concepts of the city of proximity and the city of caring, outlined by Ezio Manzini (2019, 2022). Those concepts - city of proximity and city of caring - offer an alternative framework for the conception and governance from the perspective of its citizens and communities. The proximity city emphasizes the importance of interpersonal relationships and the local community, promoting social cohesion and urban resilience. Meanwhile, the city of care highlights the shared responsibility for environmental sustainability and human well-being, encouraging conscious consumption practices and circular economy. Eugene Morozov's (2019) critique of the narrative of smart cities highlights that technology can be used as a tool for control and surveillance, restricting individual freedom and exacerbating social inequalities. Instead of focusing exclusively on efficiency and digital connectivity, a more holistic approach is proposed, focusing on citizens' needs and experiences. Boris Groys's philosophy of care expands upon these notions, emphasizing the importance of nurturing relationships and fostering empathy within urban environments. He argues that a truly caring city is one where individuals feel valued and supported, leading to a more compassionate and resilient community. By integrating these concepts into the discussion of smart cities, a more humanized and participatory vision of urban development emerges, implying a collaborative approach between governments, companies, local communities, and technology experts, with an emphasis on inclusion, diversity, and equity, as well as data privacy and security. This calls for a paradigm shift regarding the role of technology in urban life, prioritizing human well-being and sustainability over mere technical efficiency. By adopting this approach, cities can become not only "smarter" but also more livable, inclusive, and resilient for all their inhabitants.